Mommy's.....they're the greatest!

I got this in an e-mail from my dad.....it made me laugh so, although it technically isn't a post from me, I hope it makes your day!

THE MOMMY TEST
I was out walking with my 4 year old daughter. She picked up somethingoff the ground and started to put it in her mouth. I took the item away from her and I asked her not to do that. "Why?" my daughter asked."Because it's been laying outside, you don't know where it's been,it's dirty and probably has germs" I replied. At this point, mydaughter looked at me with total admiration and asked, "Wow! How doyou know all this stuff?"

"Uh," I was thinking quickly, "All moms know this stuff. It's on the Mommy Test. You have to know it, or they don't let you be a Mommy."

We walked along in silence for 2 or 3 minutes, but she was evidently pondering
this new information.

"OH...I get it!" she beamed, "So if you don't pass the test you have to be the daddy.""Exactly" I replied back with a big smile on my face and joy in my heart.


Oh, and thank goodness for little children, who make us laugh in spite of ourselves!...........

"Dear Lord," the preacher began with arms extended and a rapturous look on his upturned face, "without you we are but dust..." He would have continued, but at that moment one very obedient little girl (who was listening carefully) leaned over to her mother and asked quite audibly in her shrill little girl voice, "Mommy, WHAT is butt dust?"
Church was pretty much over at that point...

Have a great day!

I am so sorry I've become a lurker....NOT by choice

There are some of you out there that haven't yet switched to Beta Blogger....little did I know that when I switched over I would no longer be allowed to comment on your "Non-Beta" blogs......I am so sad!

Anyway I still read you, wish I could tell you I love your blogs......

Thwart Global Cooling!

Well, in spite of many mixed reviews on the new "Beta Blogger" I've given in to screen pressure (I got a message from them 10 times a day!) and switched to the new version. I'm hoping for good things, but I won't be surprised at just "average".

I've been away from my "post" (no pun intended) for some time it seems. I'd love to say I've been visiting far away ports and seeing the sights but frankly, I've just had a little "blogger block" and enough things to keep me busy that I just didn't get around to writing. (That was a wordy way of saying that my life is rather dull and boring and even I don't want to read about it!)

I've been readying myself and my house to host a baby shower for "Nutella" the Saturday after Thanksgiving (WHAT WAS I THINKING!!!!). As if having an occasion like that right after a major holiday isn't bad enough I invited 50+!!!! (What can I say "Nutella" is popular). I even pared the list down to just those whom she knew well when she lived here plus relatives that can't be ignored (whether she knows them well or not!)

My little log cabin is exactly that.......little, I think we have just over 2000 square feet.....I counted available seating and if I pack every chair we have I think 23 of those 50 people will be able to sit down, I plan on stacking the rest of them on the stairway and kitchen counter (just kidding!....I'm hoping they won't all be able to attend and I'm assuming a lot won't just because of the day).

Nutella and Tiny are naturals when it comes to entertaining, I ......well, let's just be honest here......I'm not. I love to have company once they get here, it's the planning that kills me. I guess I need to do it more often. HH and I have gotten into a rut in our old age, we socialize with family and that's about it.

We've nothing to say for ourselves except "we just like our own company" ....that is SO sad!!!! I read a great article the other day about "global cooling" in which the author explains the demise of "neighborhoods", at least as we knew them....read this excerpt:

"In the age of cell phones, email, and text messages—literally unlimited, constant communication—we seem to have lost our ability to make friends. We have neatly fenced yards and locks on all our doors, but who are we keeping out? It is quite possible in suburban America to never see or speak to our nearest neighbors—a situation that in an earlier age would have meant that we would have no help bringing in the crops or threshing the wheat or raising the new barn. While most of us no longer need our neighbors’ help to sustain the basic necessities of life, when we don’t know our neighbor, we miss out on life-enriching relationships, and we contribute to the trend of “global cooling”—the world is indeed a cold place without friends."

-Whitney Johnson

I wouldn't go so far as to say HH and I don't have friends, but our friends cosist mostly of family, and church members. After reading this article I'm determined to do better. We took our first step toward combatting "global cooling" last week when we ventured over to meet our neighbor....the one who moved onto the property adjoining ours over a year ago! It was a nice visit and I feel good to know that we at least made an effort.

Living in the country has it's only special problems when it comes to getting to know your neighbors but when I take time to think about it how hard is it ...really.....to drive a quarter of a mile and meet a new friend?

Vacation's coming!

We're off to Florida!!! Day after tomorrow! What does that mean? In general it means I'm excited to see "Nutella" and family (with a little side-trip to Disneyworld) but specifically it means......I'm a mess! I always feel overwhelmed just before vacation. It seems there are so many things to get done before I go. We hadn't even done our Visiting Teaching yet this month!!!

I NEVER pack till the day before, I just can't face it.....so I'll do that tomorrow (no sense changing my old annoying habits now, they've become like good friends!). So, today I cleaned the fridge, took care of the bills, deposited checks, caught up on office work and laundry. Tomorrow I'll clean the catbox (eeeewww!), pack for myself, make lists of what D3 should pack, stop the mail, clean the leaves off the pond, clean out the car, buy any last minute necessities, get my nails done and then I can panic!

I don't have the slightest idea why leaving affects me this way but I feel anxious most of the time. Once I'm on the plane the feeling leaves but till then ...Oh the nerves!

Last night for Family Home Evening we carved our pumpkins......kind of a theme thing in honor of visiting Disneyworld this week.....really this was totally unplanned but I think they turned out great...

Mickey (by HH), Cinderella (by D3) and Cinderella's Castle (by Moi!)

What's the gospel centered theme here you ask?

Well , let me tell you what our "treat" was.....Chocolate Lava Cakes.

Now can you guess?.....No?.............okay, here goes!

"Real Beauty comes from inside!"......huh? It is too gospel oriented!!! Okay, maybe not so much, but that's the best we could do......

It seems we've been so busy for weeks, lots to do but not much to show for it once you're done, if you know what I mean. It doesn't exactly bode well for the upcoming holidays. They seem to come on so quickly and there's so much going on that you barely have time to enjoy them. If there's ever a seminar given about how to get through the Holidays and actually enjoy every minute then I'm going to be the first one to sign up. There are so many things I love about the Thanksgiving and Christmas but that's generally the whole problem....so many things.....not enough time to do them all, let alone do them all in a meaningful way.

Nutella called this morning and they had record lows in Florida last night....the coldest night in 100 years or some such nonsense.....wouldn't you know, just when I'm hoping to go there for vacation the weather turns decidedly "Indiana-like". I don't care, I'm just going to pack my earmuffs and brace myself for the cold water at the end of Splash Mountain!

See you all soon.....Oh, and I may just have to write a "favorite things Wednesday" blog tomorrow since I won't be here on Thursday.....

Sure Love ya

You are what you think about......

One of the things I have done for the past few years is keep a small notebook with my scriptures. In it I write inspiration I receive as I read, thoughts I have as I listen to talks given in Sacrament Meeting or Confernce, favorite scriptures, and little "words of wisdom" I glean from hearing others. I have pages and pages of good things recorded in my little book....I thought I'd share a few of them with you.... (where I know the source I have included it, sometimes it is only my own thoughts recorded)

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  What matters most is what lasts longest.....the family. M. Russell Ballard
  A sincere apology never includes the word "but" as in.....I am so sorry, but...."
• 
  The Lord has blessings for us that we may not get because we do not ask. Elder Boyd K. Packer
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  Why do leaders of the church have so many opportunities in their lives where they experience the hand of the Lord? Because they look for it. High Councilman, Marion Ward
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  No message appears in scripture more times, in more ways, than "Ask and ye shall receive". Elder Boyd K. Packer
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  Happiness is like jam....you can't spread it evenly without getting a little on yourself." Kate Curran, speaker Marion Ward
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  If we teach our children how to observe a meaningful fast we will open up to them access to great spiritual power that they will need. Stake High Councilman, Jacksonville, Florida
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  Avoid the spirit and attitude of mockery and cynicism. Cease to find fault one with another. In a world beset by wrath we should not be a party to evil speaking of each other no matter the circumstances. Elder Robert S. Wood
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  Don't be bitter.....be better! John Bytheway
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  As you submit your will to the Lord you are giving him the only thing that is actually yours to give. Elder Neal A. Maxwell
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  There is no limit to the amount of good a man can accomplish if he doesn't care who gets credit for it. President David O. McKay
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  A beautiful woman has a glow of health, a warm personality, strength of character, love of learning, integrity, and the Spirit of the Lord. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
• 
  At the Chicago Temple the Temple President was asked how temple attendance could be increased or by what efforts it coud be accomplished. He replied "It cannot be done....the people will come or they will not, by their own desire. These are the last days -- the days of weeding out". After hearing his remarks my only thought was this... "Dear God, please bless me not to be a weed!"
• 
  "I Really Lived" by Sister Marjorie Hinckley... I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with gras stains on my shoes from mowing Sister Schenk's lawn. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor's children. I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's garden. I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really LIVED."

Integrity, where has it gone?

Oh I am in a baaaaad mood! We have been working on getting a "brick" (actually a paver stone) patio put in. It's been a lot of work. First we had to excavate through the lovely clay soil of Indiana to remove about 400 square feet 3" deep. That was back breaking, but nothing compared to shoveling, by hand, 5.5 tons of crushed stone into the hole (yup, filling it up again) . Once that was all done "all" we had to do was get a ton or so of sand and wait for the stones to be delivered on ............. oh, yeah..... last Tuesday.

They never arrived so I called at about 8:00 Tuesday night and they said the truck was still out making deliveries and we were scheduled for an evening delivery so they'd more than likely be here any time......no such luck.

SO yesterday bright and early, I called the store and the manager of the delivery department said the truck had broken down but it was being fixed and they'd "have those stones" out to us by nightfall.......surprise!.....no stones AGAIN.

Lucky man, got to talk to me again at 8:00 this morning, he said they'd been delivered....I asked him where (since I sure didn't see them in the driveway) and things just went downhill from there.....to make a long story short our stone is still sitting in the Garden Department at Lowe's an hour away from our house.....they've never even been loaded on the truck! No real explanation just, "hmmmm, I guess they're still here, we could "maybe" get them to you on Sunday afternoon if that would be convenient. "

Needless to say Sunday is not only "not convenient" it's also a week late and I want them NOW!!! On Tuesday it was beautiful weather, even yesterday it was in the 60's .....today it's 40 and they're predicting snow.

I'm just so frustrated. It seems that more often than not, when we hire a job to be done it goes like this, the workers show up....or not, the work gets done on time......or not, and there's nothing at all we can do about it. You wouldn't dare pay a contractor up front because you might well never see him again but since you haven't paid (or not more than a small deposit) they really don't care when, or whether, they get the work done.....I really feel like I'm at their mercy.

I try to be understanding but honestly if we ran our business like this we wouldn't be IN business. I just don't understand how anyone can even feel good about doing this to people. When we put in our fireplace they brought most of the supplies in August and the stone mason came out .... he said they'd be done in about two weeks with good weather. Well, the weather was beautiful but I didn't see him again until the middle of September and the fireplace didn't get finished until 2 days before Thanksgiving!

Okay, I'm done venting, I'm going to find something better to do with my time today than dwell on this.....hope your day is going well! : )

Sure Love Ya!

Sometimes you need a reminder....

I got a beautiful e-mail from a friend the other day and felt like it was something worth sharing....indulge me a little lazy blogging....just for today

The Blind Horse

Just up the road from my home is a field, with two horses in it.

From a distance, each looks like every other horse. But if you stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite amazing. Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind. His owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for him. This alone is amazing. If nearby and listening, you will hear the sound of a bell.

Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes from the smaller horse in the field. Attached to her halter is a small bell. It lets her blind friend know where she is, so he can follow her.

As you stand and watch these two friends, you'll see how she is always checking on him, and that he will listen for her bell and then slowly walk to where she is, trusting that she will not lead him astray. When she returns to the shelter of the barn each evening, she stops occasionally and looks back, making sure her friend isn't too far behind to hear the bell. Like the owners of these two horses, God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect or because we have problems or challenges.

He watches over us and even brings others into our lives to help us when we are in need. Sometimes we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing bell of those who God places in our lives. Other times we are the guide horse, helping others see.

Good friends are like this ......... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there

Please listen for my bell and I'll listen for yours.

Quoting a favorite song of mine......"have you done any good in the world today, have you helped anyone in need, have you cheered up the sad, or made someone feel glad....if not, you have failed in deed"

Inside a mother's fevered brain.....

Okay, so "Tiny" has been back at college for just about a month. Every couple of days I get a phone call that starts out with "Mom, guess what I did today!!!"

After the first one I learned to be careful.....the conversation went like this....

Tiny: "Mom, guess what I did today?!"

Me: "Oh, I don't know...tell me" (first mistake)

Tiny: "I jumped off a bridge"

ME: 'YOU WENT BUNGEE JUMPING?!"

Tiny: "Sheesh, no mom, we didn't use bungee cords we just jumped!"


Me: "Oh....." (I'm sure I said more but at this point it would have been my mouth in automatic as my mind frantically pictured this..........)











Next phone call?

Tiny: "Mom, guess what I did today"

Me: "...........You jumped off another bridge?" (You'd think I'd learn the first time).

Tiny: "NO....silly, ......I went Kayaking!"

Me: "Oh....." (my mind takes off.....)

Today she sent me "her" pictures (the above were ...thank goodness.....only in my imagination.....)

Bridge jumping:

And, of course, Kayaking:

From now on our conversations are going to go like this:

Tiny: "Guess what I did today mom?"

Me: "No time to talk honey, just send me a picture! : )"

Okay, a little cold but definitely worth it in terms of sleep and the length of my daily prayers!

Mom out!

A letter to my daughter....

Poor "Tiny" lost her wallet this past weekend....having lost mine only last month I could totally commiserate. In an attempt the cheer her up ...... a short letter.....

Dear Tiny:

I am sorry that you lost your wallet. I'd like to tell you it's the last time you'll ever do that but ....well, you're my daughter and that entitles you to certain um.......rights and privileges.

Because you are my daughter you will be blessed with the gift of being able to forget almost everything. When people hurt your feelings you will only remember it for a short time and then it will be over. When you go to a movie you will be able to enjoy it not just once, but every time you see it because you will have forgotten how it goes. You will enjoy the simplest of drives because it will always seem new.....to this day I can't drive to the temple without saying to myself "This road doesn't look at all familiar to me".

You will have more than one child because you will forget that pregnancy is hard, labor is no fun and raising children is expensive. You will forgive the faults of others because you won't remember what they are until they remind you. And yes, you will leave your purse, your wallet, your glasses, your shoes, your keys, your jackets and sometimes even your mind in all the many places you will go. This will be a vexation to you but it will teach you tolerance for others, understanding and believe it or not it will teach you patience with yourself.

Just like the good fairies in Sleeping Beauty I bestowed upon you gifts, the gift of being like your mom in at least a few things so that I could look at you and say to myself "Yes, she is beautiful, and yes, she is truly my daughter".

I love you (in spite of the crummy gift of forgetfulness!)

Gosh I honestly don't know how a week can go by so fast! I've been blessed to have my mom visiting me so of course the time flies even faster than normal. We even baked a pie together see?

We could have made LOTS of pies since we have an apple tree in our yard that produces hundreds of apples but we have one (million) little four-legged bushy-tailed problem.......squirrels! You know I wouldn't mind them eating the apples....I suppose they have to eat something (instead of my log cabin.....which, come to think of it, they do!) but they don't eat them they just pick them! Once the apple gets about the size of a ping pong ball they randomly pick them off and throw them on the ground.....truly it's maddening. I wasn't totally out of luck this year because they missed 13! Just enough for me and my mommy to make a pie and it was delish!

I've tried to make my peace with the fauna of the woods but honestly, although they were here first, I'd just as soon see them all move away to the neighbor's house and never let their furry little presence(s) darken my window (door, deck, rooftop, garbage can, gas grill, hot tub) again! .....if you know what I mean.

When we moved here I was (insert sweet girlish voice here) simply enchanted by the racoons. They were so CUTE! That was before they vandalized all the bird feeders, ate the hoses off the gas grill (on more than one occasion) and generally wreaked havoc upon my abode. They are very bold and will come right up on the back deck to stare in at us through the french doors (they don't seem to mind that I'm saving up to make my own racoon fur coat!) I've never known them to be outwitted by any contraption we think up to try and save the bird food for the birds. At one point HH hung the feeders from the eaves of the house so they couldn't climb the pole and get them anymore.

HA! As if this would stop the rascals.......the following night we saw one burly fellow eating the seeds off the ground as his "friend" hung by one hind leg from the roof, reaching out with his "hand" to bat at the feeder which caused immense quantities of the seed to fall as it swung wildly to and fro......yup, they're smart.

The squirrels are not nearly as clever but twice as fast and there must be millions of them! They destroy the apple tree, hide nuts in my dryer vent, chew on the dormers of the house, harvest "nesting material" from the canvas cover of the gazebo and frankly.....drive me crazy.

All I wanted was a little house in the woods among the peace and quiet of nature.....what did I get? A little lesson or two (most every day) on exactly WHO is in charge around here......and need I say it.......it certainly ain't me!

Sure Love ya!

Wow! Did you know?......

I am totally, and constantly, amazed at the amount of information you can get on the internet. Remember how happy I was that fall was (sort of) here? Well I got right out there and cleaned out the flower beds so I could plant my mums. HH's last words of advice to me that day were "Watch out for the poison ivy"
"Uh-Huh, sure honey (little voice in my head "I don't get poison ivy")
Well the next day I smugly told him that I had cleaned the flower beds and voila! no poison ivy (just as I thought, HA!)

Unfortunately what I didn't know is that poison ivy sometimes takes oh......say about 48 hours after you say you don't have it.....to show up (bummer....I hate the taste of my own words!) Anyway, I got it....the first time ever. Everyone has given me advice about it, the most common being encouraging words like "You know once you've had it you get it more easily than ever!" Gee Thanks friend! : )

Guess what? It itches! Terribly! Another piece of advice I got? "Don't scratch it because it will spread and be worse than ever" Oh,.....thanks again, wish you'd told me that yesterday.

So with a terribly itchy, ugly (now I understand the meaning of the words "an angry red rash), oozing mess on my arm I find myself constantly surfing the internet in search of self-help regarding stupidity, I mean poison ivy. Most of the advice I've already heard, and tried but then I find a gem....something that miraculously works!

Up till now my chief complaint has been the constant itching no matter what I put on it but I find this little tidbit on a website...."Try the hair-dryer treatment, it truly is the only thing that works to relieve the itching". So I begin my treatment, setting the hairdryer on medium and focusing the air on my tender but very itchy forearm. Immediately my arm begins to itch more than ever (luckily this was covered in the website so I continue), and get awfully red. It felt like a million little scratching fingers all over my arm, (I think I started to purr!), after 5 minutes the itching was completely gone! It lasted almost 4 hours! I did it one more time before I went to bed last night and didn't even wake up once to scratch......I'm so relieved! Ha Ha!

I have to say this method was 1000 percent better than some of the others I read about (and dare I say tried?......hey I was desperate)

• slap the itch till you can't stand it any more
• use a mixture of bleach and soap to wash it...after the initial sting it doesn't itch as much
• take a freezing cold shower then apply ice to affected areas (note: they forgot to say the ice may actually stick to wet skin......ouch!)
• chew a crushed poison ivy leaf to trigger your body's own immune response (duh!.....I don't think I'm trying that you idiot!)
• Rub affected area with rubbing alcohol, nail polish, nail polish remover, windex (hey, isn't that from Big Fat Greek Wedding), hairspray, denorex shampoo.....(the list goes on and on....obviously people are trying anything!)
• Apply duct tape to the area (this obviously controls the scratching, I wonder how you get the tape off?)

And last but not least I discovered the "Poison Ivy Rash Hall of Fame Slideshow".....not for the faint of heart but definitely made me feel better about my own relatively minor case!

I'm so ashamed of myself....

I belong to a book club (we post on blog "Been There Read That") and I had to pick the book for this month. I chose "Without a Net" by Michelle Kennedy. It's a true story about the author's encounter with homelessness. Through a serious of unfortunate events (no pun intended) she finds herself living with her three small children in a small Subaru wagon.

The entire story was sad and I felt sorry for both her and her children. Much of what caused the situation I felt was truly preventable but after reading Suzy Q's review I realize that I have lived a life relatively free of serious problems and now I sit here sad because I think I may not be as Christlike as I thought. Somehow I've forgotten to "think the best and overlook the worst" in people. From the beginning of the book I didn't like the author because she used language I can't stand.....very judgemental on my part, I know not everyone has been taught the things I have, nor have they had opportunities to be taught those things.

I have been very blessed in my life, this is not because I have deserved to be, it is because I live with people who deserve it.....lucky me I get the fallout! I have many many faults and each night when I kneel to say my prayers I feel deeply my own inadequacies. I am just ashamed that I could have been so judgemental about this poor woman when I have certainly had many mercies extended to me.

I think I had better take some "humble pills" before I find myself in the midst of a hard lesson that I don't want to learn. I hereby apologize to the world for being so darned full of myself! : )

If you care to visit our book club site and read the reviews of the book feel free www.beentherereadthat.blogspot.com

Another good book along those lines is "Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America by Barbara Ehrenreich

It was the best of days, it was the worst of days.....

Five years ago today our world was shaken as the twin towers fell and our country faced terrorism in a vivid, violent, and personal way. I still remember how I felt watching the scenes unfold that day. It was the most frightening time I have ever personally faced. The safety I had known every day of my life as a citizen of the greatest country in the free world was in question and I cried. I cried for the people who had lost loved ones, I cried for our country gripped in the clutches of terror without a face, I cried most of all for my children as I knew the world would never be the same.

September 11 is a date that brings all kinds of memories and feelings, and in most households it marks a solemn occasion of suffering and loss. In our house it is a difficult paradox. On the one hand it brings, of course the tragic memories of the attacks, the very personal involvement as my husband served at ground zero as part of the National Incident Management Team mobilized to deal with the overwhelming task of restoring order to a city in immense chaos, and all the feelings of fear, frustration and endless questions that couldn't be answered.

On the other hand nine years before that September 11 our youngest daughter was born, that day we realized it would be the last time we would bring a child into the world. She was born before the towers fell, born into a world of peace and security. She was beautiful and a miracle to us. We couldn't have been happier to have an addition to our family of girls. We named her after the town in Wyoming where I was born....a name that conjures up beautiful images in my mind of family and love and all things beautiful.....she's lived up to her name in every way, bringing a sunny disposition, cheerful attitude and loving nature to bless our home.

So as I sit and listen to the many comments made this day I have mixed feelings. Loss and sadness, worry and questions mingle with intense feelings of love for this country, pride in my citizenship, gratitude for a husband who deals with these crises every time they arise,but most of all, and foremost in my mind on September 11 I feel love for my daughter, the one really important thing to me this day....first and foremost her birthday, a little thing that brings great happiness to my little corner of the world on September 11.

Happy Birthday Afton!!

Things I love Thursday!

I love this weekly sharing thing! Some of my greatest finds were by accident but a lot of them were because one friend or another shared her find with me.....I'm just trying to do my part and pass the word on good stuff!





WoodWicks Candles....have you seen these yet?
I just LOVE them.

These candles are unique in
that they have a wood wick which gives you a
beautiful slow burn AND the best part...it crackles
like a wood fire! What could be better for fall
than a crackling fire that smells good! I found mine
at Cracker Barrell but I know you can get them
on-line. The scent is strong and lasting! Enjoy!



CHOCOLATE!

As always at least one of my favorite things has to
be food.....what IS it with me and food anyway!
For this one you have to love dark.....really DARK....chocolate
I buy Green & Black's Dark 70% organic chocolate at Target....mmmmmmm!

If you want a real treat use it to make a truffle cream and
use THAT to bake inside a "Molten Lava Cake".....yup...it's heaven!

Cake Batter Ingredients:

7 ounces Dark Semi-Sweet Chocolate

8 T Butter

1 tsp vanilla

3 eggs separated - room temperature

1/3 cup sifted cake flour

1/8 tsp salt

1/8 tsp cream of tartar

1/3 c sugar

Chocolate Lava Centers

2 oz Dark Semi-Sweet Chocolate

1/5 oz heavy cream

1 tsp butter

1Chop the dark semi-sweet chocolate into pieces. Place into a metal bowl, add butter. Melt over a simmering waterbath. Remove from heat.

2) Add vanilla extract and (3) egg yolks. Whisk together until chocolate mixture is smooth.

3) Add well sifted cake flour, and gently incorporated into the above chocolate mixture.
4) Place the (3) egg whites into a clean metal bowl, add salt and cream of tartar. Using a whisk, whip egg whites until soft peaks form. Continue to whisk while slowly sprinkling in the sugar.

5) Using a rubber spatula, carefully fold 1/3rd of the egg whites into the chocolate mixture. Then fold-in another 1/3rd of the egg whites. Then fold-in the last 1/3rd of the egg whites. see picture #3 below
6) Deposit the batter into large "non-stick" muffin tins - fill 3/4 full. Ramekins can also be used simply butter insides and dust with cocoa powder. see picture #4
7) Push a Chocolate Lava Center into the center of each cake batter. This creates the molten lava center!see picture #4
8) Bake at 375F degrees for 15 minutes. Do not over bake! see picture #5
SERVE THIS IMMEDIATELY....WHILE CENTER IS STILL LIQUID!

Blondes have more fun.......And they provide the rest of us with a good laugh!

I have a dear friend, she's a blonde through and through and her name is Joanie. I can count on her to cheer me up on a moment's notice and this weekend was no exception. We have been having an on-going conversation about whether or not it's difficult to get up on Sunday and go to church.

Mind you I'm a morning person, always have been. I do my best work in the morning, I'm coherent, happy, enthusiastic, and intelligent until 9 p.m. at which time the word non-functioning best describes me. Getting up for church is simply not an issue with me, it's easy.

Blondie, aka Joanie, is not..... a morning person. She freely admits this, as well as the struggle it is for her to get up and go to church. She has tried on numerous occasions to convince me that she has an illness, a strange illness that seems recur on a weekly basis. It usually hits her in the wee hours of Sunday morning and by the time the alarm goes off she's got a full blown case of .......whatever it is. The symptoms range from general malaise and joint pain to headaches, ringing ears and slight nausea. Occasionally she convinces herself to stay at home in bed rather than attend church so that she doesn't spread the "disease" to the elderly and infirm among the congregation (she is so thoughtful this way). Luckily, so far as I can tell, the symptoms usually subside sometime after the last meeting of the three hour block and she can resume her sabbath day activities.

This past Sunday she explained that as she had been sick the previous week she was determined to get up and go to church (in other words a weeks worth of guilt had set in). Of course she woke up experiencing some dizziness and aching muscles, her symptoms seemed to get worse as she got ready for church but, to her credit, she was determined.

As she arrived at church she said her feet hurt so badly she could hardly make the walk from the car to the building and she really planned to bear her testimony, now it appeared she wouldn't be able to make it to the pulpit. She was honestly embarrassed and felt ridiculous hobbling along like a 60 year old woman (waaaiiiitttt a minnnuuuttteee............she IS a 60 year old woman!) nevermind, anyway back to the story, where was I? Oh yeah, her feet hurt.....

Anyway, sometime after the invocation but before the sacrament was passed she said she discovered a possible cause of the extreme pain.......her shoes were on the wrong feet!

Joanie, I love you! You're the best! Thanks for being brave enough to let us all laugh at you and feel a little better about our own little problems!

Christmas Creep

You may assume from the title that I’m talking about The Grinch, or Scrooge, or maybe even the surly department store santa..…..nope, “Christmas Creep” is apparently (where have I been?) the buzzword referring to an instatiable appetite for all things Christmas…..so much so that retailers begin displaying said holiday wares earlier and earlier each year. So far I’ve seen Christmas displays in two local department stores, the mall ( the Christmas Store is open for business as of today), and Cracker Barrell where summer merchandise has been cleared away to make room for the three fully decorated trees!

Although I absolutely abhor this trend, I leniently give myself permission to indulge in a little Holiday hurry where Fall is concerned. As of Monday, August 28, when I suddenly realized only 3 days stood between me and September, I began having mysterious dreams of my favorite pumpkin dishes and yesterday I had to buy an “Autumn Spice” candle. I’ve resisted going to the attic to take down my fall decorations but I seriously doubt if I’ll make it through the weekend.

I know it’s technically not “Fall” until September 21 but I can’t seem to help myself. I just love the season. I love the colors (and, I look particularly good in brown!), I ADORE the food (pumpkin pancakes with homemade warm applesauce and whipped cream……oh MY GOSH!), and the decorating of my house easily rivals Christmas. There’s nothing better than the sight of a little log cabin surrounded by the colors of Autumn, a little smoke coming out of the chimney (okay I’m going to have to wait a bit for the first fire…..it’s still 80+ and humid here), and hot apple cider in the morning.

The whole thing just makes me feel good! Today I'll clear out the last vestiges of summer from my garden to make room for the mums which are just beautiful. If I ever discover a decorating scheme as gorgeous for summer I might learn to enjoy it just as much…..if I had a little Victorian house with a wraparound porch for instance…..I just love it when you see one with all the white wicker furniture and floral cushions, big baskets of purple hydrangeas, and a white porch swing…..



somehow I think HH would resist the idea of purchasing different homes for different seasons…..

Did I mention D2 is studing design? I’m no designer, nor do I have any aspirations in that direction, but I do recognize the impact of surroundings on mood, and how easily influenced we are by tradition. I just happen to associate Fall with happiness, it’s the season during which HH asked me to marry him, the season of Nutella’s wedding, the time of year when D3 was born, the fire season is winding down so HH will be home again, and it's time for long walks in the woods among crisp leaves surrounded by the wonderful smells of autumn .

I’m no “Christmas Creep” but I’ll cheerfully accept the label of “Fall Fanatic”!

P.S. In case I made you hungry here’s the recipe for pumpkin pancakes which just happen to be low fat and low calorie!

Teeth, they are SO useful!!!

As you may remember D2 has been here all week suffering mightily in the aftermath of wisdom tooth extraction. For obvious reasons I've become obsessed with finding ever more attractive soft food fare. I stocked up on pudding, popsicles, applesauce, and ice cream only to discover that after a few meals this somewhat sugary diet becomes less than desirable.

We have moved through the pureed food phase (have you EVER SEEN a pureed hot dog?) and tested the waters today at McDonalds where she tried her hand, .....um rather mouth.......at eating a Sausage, Egg and Cheese biscuit. After discovering she couldn't get her mouth open wide enough to get it into her mouth, let alone try the chewing part we created the first ever McDonald's Sausage Egg and Cheese Panini....(don't ask). The smile on her face said it all, life is good!

The whole week has reminded me of how hard it is going to be to get old and quite possibly lose my teeth. A couple of months ago we visited HH's grandma in the nursing home and helped her with her lunch of pureed grilled cheese, tomato soup, and red velvet cake. The thing that caught my attention was that everything.....including the grilled cheese sandwich......had roughly the same color and texture, kind of a light peachy pink blob too thick for a straw and too thin for a fork.

Frankly I've come to the conclusion that I'm not going to enjoy the life of a toothless old person, I've therefore decided to request all my teeth be pulled sometime around the age of 80 so I can get myself a shiny new set of false ones!

As long as I'm going through the pain of tooth removal I may go ahead and spring for a chin-tuck, cheek implants, and botox......yup, I'm gonna be the Hot Old Lady down in 142B !

As they say, life has it's ups and downs.....

Point in fact............short study of my recent life:



HH stays home for a full week (AND long enough to see D3's first day of school) before being called out to another fire.



HH leaves for new fire the day before D3 has her first soccer game and 4 days before D2 comes home for a visit (he hasn't seen her since Christmas)

New "Toto"model basket arrives for my bike, along with speedometer to gauge my success in terms of distance and speed! Day one finds me making a 10 mile ride to the hardware store to save gas.....and amazingly enough I made it!!!




While on said ride I lose my wallet containing one credit card, my ATM card, my Mastercard Debit, and almost worst of all.....my Driver's License (making the well thought out statement "Ask for I.D." on every card completely useless! ) I can't help picturing the commercials for CitiBank.........and wondering if some large tattooed man is buying a new Harley.

Although person who finds wallet is not honest enough to return it, he IS quick and immediately opens an Ebay account using my stolen credit card....Ebay sends me an e-mail so I can cancel cards in time.


Ever hopeful that my new Driver's License can be procured BEFORE I have to pick up D2 at the Airport , I rush to DMV only to discover I haven't worn much makeup,.......once again my I.D. will serve as deathrow mugshot should I ever need one.


D2 arrives safely and my pretty much empty nest is a little less empty for the next week.........here's to the intermittent joys of motherhood!



I struggle after reading through the talk I'm giving in Sacrament Meeting this Sunday realizing it seems boring and uninspired.


D1 calls to chat and we discover she's giving a talk in Sacrament Meeting this Sunday too and.........I couldn't believe it.......she has the same topic! (I'm saved!) Not that I'd ever steal her talk.....but inspiration can come from anywhere right? : ) Hurry up with those notes honey!

Unfortunately one of the reasons D2 is home is to have her wisdom teeth pulled .....we take her in for the "preliminaries" and get the happy news that since this is a straight forward routine procedure and there are no foreseeable problems the cost will only be $1500 ....I am SO glad! (I force myself to be quiet and not explain that I assume for that price we also get pain free surgery,immediate recovery, and lip plumping!)

Church has a VERY successful blood drive and they happily accept my formerly anemic, now acceptable sample. .... I get a free T-Shirt in XXXXXL and this little badge of honor for my efforts (I do mention to them that they'd get much more business if they provided on-site pedicures, free cholesterol screening and a neck massage while you wait......those people have NO humor).





Take D2 on bike ride this morning, nearly kill her and have to bike home "on the double" to get the car and pick her up. (Did I mention she's a 110 pound weakling!) All the exertion makes my blood letting wound from yesterday hurt and my fingers go numb (I hope I haven't sprung a leak!)


Arrive home from above rescue mission to find FedEx in my drive with 3 dozen roses from my sweet HH who knows the ups and downs sometimes seem overwhelming! I love you honey!!!

Exactly what are you comfortable with?

I'm just wondering.......does it concern anyone that ground cinnamon is OK if it has fewer than 400 insect fragments and fewer than 11 or more rodent hairs per 50 grams? What about cornmeal? The FDA (and I always trusted them!) says avoid it if it has more than one rodent excreta fragment (huh? I think that's rat poop!) per 50 grams. (Uh,..... well okay if you really think that would be a problem .......duh!)

You may be wondering what brought on this question.....you weren't? Too bad because the basis of my blog begins here......

Way back when HH became the wonderful cook that he is today (that would be about two months ago when he graduated from cooking fried spam and potatoes to whatever the American Heart Association included in their free on-line recipe book). Anyway, I digress......in one of his lates epicurian adventures he prepared for us a delectable dish called Lemon Barbequed Chicken.

I might just add here that the wonderful thing about new cooks is that they follow the recipe to the letter, right down to actually TOASTING SESAME SEEDS! (This is the point in any recipe when I, in my great wisdom borne from years of dedicated cookery, decide that they've got to be kidding if they think I'm going to spend "approximately 10-15 minutes toasting the sesame seeds over a low flame while stirring constantly") In a word, or two, it was absolutely delicious! And worth every minute he spent toasting those seeds.....thanks honey!

The next morning however, I opened the drawer containing my measuring cups to find he had evidently been a little, shall we say......cavalier, with the sesame seeds, as there were two "well toasted" ones in the bottom of my measuring cup. I washed them out and decided to be a good wife and not nag him about two little sesame seeds.....I mean really, I'm not THAT picky!

Then my life, and everything I know and hold dear, was turned upside down, inside out and backwards with a few little words from HH.........."Helen, can you come and look at this?" Which was followed by my screams when I beheld within my favorite mixing bowl 5 or 6 small little.....toasted sesame seeds? .........

No, I think not........those are,..... those are,..... those aren't ....gulp.....mouse poTTY ARE THEY!?!?! To answer my own question, yes, they most definitely were and I don't give a(excuse my language) rat's gray hair what the good old FDA has to say about the maximum allowable number of

.........WHATEVER........allowed in any one dish I, Bright One, will accept NONE! Not one, not a half of one, not even a small rodent SIZED ONE!!!!!!

Yesterday was spent emptying every last cupboard in my kitchen, washing every dish, every appliance, every towel, washcloth, sponge and surface. Disinfecting, reapplying shelf paper, tossing all non-sealed packages, and just about everything else you can think of short of sanding and refinishing the cabinets.

I went to bed exhausted only to wake at 12:30, 2:10, 3:05 and finally just giving up and getting up at 3:30 to check the mousetraps and every cupboard for evidence of .....well, you know what.

I know, you're probably saying...."Hey, doesn't she have a cat?".....Well, technically yes I have a cat, but in any practical sense relating to the actual benefits of cat ownership (chief among them being rodent control), NO!

This is a cat who will not eat anything, I mean anything except

1. Dry Cat Food (Purina only), and
2. Peel and eat shrimp (peeled of course)

The only way this cat is going to take care of any rodent problem is if I catch each mouse and tie a shrimp to it's back!!! (Sorry if I sound a wee bit sarcastic!)

We managed to catch one mouse overnight......is that the one, THE ONLY one? I'd like to think so but how will I ever know? I'm thinking there are sleepless nights ahead for me...........oh, and no more toasted sesame seeds on my food thank you!

Things I love Thursday!

How can I possibly come up with things I love EVERY SINGLE THURSDAY you might ask? Well, I don't know, I guess because I have a lot of things......and the things I have I tend to love, and there seem to be more and more things all the time. Who knew there would be so many wonderful things?

But today I don't want to write about any of them because I have to tell you the most interesting news! Have you heard about McDonald's new line of light hamburgers? Ahhhh, I thought not, neither had I but I've had one, it was light and I feel obligated to share the news.

Actually, I have to admit that I'm not really a McDonald's fan....(although the french fries always make me think fondly of my grandma and grandpa) I have read way too many articles about the dire consequences of a Mickey D's diet and I'm not into commercials enough to know when they offer anything new so I"m probably McDonalds deficient......

You can imagine my surprise then to find something this innovative! I was on may way (in a hurry) to pick up D3 and I hadn't eaten in about 18 hours (too busy, nothing in the house, etc) I WAS STARVING! Bad position to be in anyway for a person trying to watch her caloric intake. Well, there was a McD ....right on the way! I wrestled with myself trying to decide whether to eat, or risk a possible car accident when I dropped dead at the wheel from starvation.

I make a quick decision and pulled into the drive through only to realize, too late, that I didn't have a dime on me! I dug around in the console of the car and under the floor mats and came up with 83 cents! Perfect, a hamburger only costs 69!!! I made my guilty little purchase and drove happily away. I'd driven only a short distance when I took that first bite. It tasted, well, different, ..............so I peeked inside the bun to be greeted by two and a half pickle slices, ketchup, mustard and ...I think chopped onions. No meat. Hm. What did I expect for 69 cents? I don't know, for some reason it nagged at me.....I just had to turn around (spending probably 45 cents in gas) and drive back to ask about this one.

When I walked up to the counter I was greeted by a cheery little McD employee who asked if she could help me. I laid open the bun and smiled.....she looked at it, looked at me, and smiled back! I asked if this was the "diet"burger. She hollered over her shoulder to the kitchen "Hey, who made that last hamburger in the driveup?!" A little black face peeked out from behind the wall then quickly disappeared but it was too late, we'd seen him. Salesgirl grabbed him and asked for an explanation....he just said "Sorry lady, you know...... this stuff'll kill you" (my worst suspicions confirmed). I got a new, fully loaded, calorie laden burger at no charge, justice prevails!

Just thought I should pass the word that contrary to popular rumors, McDonald's IS concerned about our waistlines and they're bold enough to do something about it! (Better check those buns!)

Is this me?

Have you ever found yourself slipping, ever so slowly and subtly, into a world completely NOT like you?

I have always eschewed brand shopping, name dropping and ladder-climbing in favor of loyalty to the good and reliable. When everyone else was buying Cuisinart I was still using, and praising my 1984 Oster Kitchen Center, I used cloth diapers instead of disposable preferring the "natural fiber feel" for my baby, I refused to put down sod and grew my grass from seed, and then I woke up and realized something.......

Not only did I purchase a Motorola Razr V3 phone (I managed to resist buying a pink one) but today I found myself sliding the debit card out of my wallet in pursuit of ..........I almost can't say it......a, ummmm, a................(if I say it fast it won't hurt as much) Bluetooth hands free device.

There, it's out, I've said it, and as they say, admitting it is half the battle. It's killing me, I used to absolutely go bananas when I saw people walking around the mall, the grocery store, walmart....wherever.....wearing their little multi-colored ear candy and talking business while doing their shopping and now ............ am I one of them? If I am one of them is it okay?

How did this happen to me? It started with my phone malfunctioning on vacation. At odd and random times my phone would ring, I'd answer, and there'd be no one there.....just silence. It was only after a few days and several of these calls that I determined my phone was NOT working. Apparently the person on the other end of the line could hear me (probably saying wierd things like...."If you don't stop calling me and hanging up I'm going to track you down and strangle you in your sleep!") but I couldn't hear them UNLESS I put in the earphone (the old-fashioned wired type). It was all very frustrating and since I was at the end of my contract period (wierd how that happened JUST when I qualified for a new phone......conspiracy?Hmmmmm....) I went into the Verizon store and fell prey to the salesperson. Before I knew it I had purchased a cute little, trendy little, made for teenage girls type phone...the Razr....yippee.

I had resigned myself to the fact that it's just a phone, at least I knew I wasn't buying it for any reason other than the fact that I needed a phone. Then I found out that a Razr only has one kind of hands free capability and that's "Bluetooth" AAAAAGGGGHHHHH! The dilemma has been whether to break down and join the masses or give up hands-free which is so much safer/easier in the car.

So here I am, one of the crowd, just another fad following, cash spending, brand flashing showoff. I'm so depressed!

Second Honeymoons...I get about 4 a year!

Now that I'm about to be reunited (as of tomorrow at 4:29 p.m. via United Airlines) with my dear HH whom I haven't seen in over 6 (count 'em SIX) weeks, the wierdest thoughts keep popping into my head

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder" or was it "Absence makes the heart go yonder" ?

"If I'd put those six weeks to better use I'd be a size 8 by now and he'd be so happy to not see me!" : )

"Tomorrow I'd better clean or it will appear I've been doing nothing but shopping, reading, sunbathing, shopping, eating, shopping, and blogging while he's been gone". (Which would be completely unfounded!)

"Was there anything he asked me to do before he got back?" (If so, it appears I've forgotten it).

"Should I take out the trash or make him feel needed when he gets home?"

"If there's a heat wave this week and the world catches on fire it can just burn and it'll have to do it without him!!!" (I know, not very compassionate but I'm a lonely woman and that's just never good)

"I suppose I'm going to have to redo the menu" (current offerings: cheerios, raisin bran, lucky charms or lean quisine, oh yeah I think there's something in the vegetable drawer but I've been afraid to look).

"Now where did I put that lawn mower?"

"Whew, I thought I was going to have to pay to get the oil changed!"

and of course I'll admit I have pondered a time or two on the truth of the old adage:

"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you,
catch it quick.......................................hey, it had its chanceI"

Miss you honey see you soon! : )

Things I love Thursday (AGAIN!).....

Wow I have no idea where the days are going but someone told me this morning that it was Thursday! (Honestly I thought, hey, no way, I mean it’s gotta be Tuesday at the most!) Anyway, time for another list of my favorite things! (And spurred on by your comments last week I had to go out and buy more spice tins to give as gifts!)

When I consider things for my list I try to have some sort of criteria. Number one I want it to be something that either a) knocked my socks off when I saw it the first time, b) makes my life easier, or c) gets used almost as often as my anti-wrinkle cream. Any item that falls into at least one of these categories is fair game….


I’ve been going through my things in anticipation of
a grandbaby! I still have so many things that I thought
might be good to send to Nutella….high chairs, bassinettes,
you know. Anyway I came across our “Baby Sitter” we
used this CONSTANTLY when our children were little.






It’s just a “high chair” that hangs on the side of any table.
It has a fairly deep seat and a little safety harness (necessary
under the best of circumstances). It was so handy to have it
at restaurants where the high chairs were often too big, too open,
(or too dirty!), it was also nice when we were visiting someone
who didn’t have small children….I’ve carried this all over the
country as we traveled. LOVED IT!!! (Disclaimer: the model
pictured here is NOT the original “BabySitter” but is very
much like it. I don’t think our model is made anymore!)

LDSAUDIO.COM Maybe you have discovered this site already
in case you haven’t…..I’m sharing it with you. From this site you
can download any of their LDS books or music CD's in MP3 format to
your IPod, Mp3 player, the hard-drive of your computer or burn
it to a CD. The software which allows you to download and store

the files on your computer is free and the cost of the downloads
themselves are MUCH cheaper than buying the CD versions in
stores. I have used this site so much I should own stock! It’s
great in a pinch. I have been known to download a book to CD
and give it and hour later as a gift. Trust me on this one, it’s a
GREAT site! No going to the mall, no mail or shipping costs, no
delay....it's instant! Also, the great thing is that once you purchase
a title it remains in your on-line library so you can download it again
anytime you wish. (I wish they'd come up with a video version!)


Due to "pressing business" it's only a short list this week....feel free to share some of your favorites with me though!!! (In fact I'm compiling a list of recommended books to read.....tell me your favorites!)

Sure Love Ya!